After repeated discussions with a friend or family member, we may need to agree to disagree, but not until we've given it our best.
The Bible sets high standards on reconciliation. Matthew 5:23-24 tells us that we can't even use ministry as an excuse to avoid it.
As Christ-followers, we should:
1. Consider the needs, concerns, and grievances of others, not simply our own (Philippians 2:3-4).
2. Listen carefully without anger (James 1:19).
3. Forgive those who've offended us (Colossians 3:13).
Even if we are confronting a fellow believer for a sin, we should do it “with great patience and careful instruction.” (2 Timothy 2:24-26; 2 Timothy 4:2).
Before and during a difficult discussion, we should be asking ourselves if our words and actions are transmitting “compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience” (Colossians 3:12).
“And over all these virtues [we should] put on love.” Colossians 3:14
Bible Love Notes
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